Posts by Debbie Steinberg Kuntz, LMFT
Performance-driven parenting vs autonomy-based parenting
Dr. William Stixrud’s Self-Driven Child approach challenges the traditional, performance-driven parenting style by focusing on fostering unconditional love and self-confidence in kids. He explains that when we tie approval to achievements like grades or sports, kids can feel like they must earn our love.
Instead, expressing confidence in their ability to navigate challenges sends a powerful message: You are loved for who you are, not what you do. This builds trust and resilience, helping kids thrive in their unique way.
The Advantages of Neurodiversity, with Devon MacEachron
There may be more advantages to having a neurodiverse brain than we think, especially in our rapidly changing world. Listen as Dr. Devon MacEachron explains how creative, non-sequential, out-of-the-box thinkers may be perfectly wired for the work of the future.
Read MoreNeed gift ideas for your bright and quirky child?
Wondering what to get your bright and quirky child this holiday season?
I have fond memories of hunting down the perfect thing depending on my kids’ ages and stages of development, like marble runs, games, things for fort building, Lego sets and more.
This year, community member Morgan Jackson shares some hot-off-the-presses exciting new ideas that you may not have heard about yet.
10 Ways to Practice Gratitude, for Greater Well-Being and Happiness
In the spirit of the season, we wanted to share some simple gratitude practices that can boost your happiness, strengthen your relationships, and even improve your health! Gratitude isn’t just about saying thank you—it’s about seeing the world through a more positive lens. Research shows gratitude can create an upward spiral of well-being, leading to…
Read MoreWhen to support or push your child, with Olivia Martinez Hauge
Do you ever ask yourself when parenting your bright and quirky child: when should I support them and when should I push them? Occupational therapist Olivia Martinez-Hauge, MTFA, OTR hears that question a lot because our kids are complex! Listen as Olivia shares thoughts about understanding a child’s capacity, creating a just-right challenge, and empowering your child to ask for help when needed.
Read MoreAmazing quick tip for managing anxious thoughts, with Matt Zakreski
When anxious thoughts arise in your mind, there’s a part of you that is trying to keep you safe.
The only problem is that often, the reality of the situation is far less dangerous or scary.
Luckily, there’s something you and your child can do to put unhelpful anxious thoughts in their place.
Listen as psychologist Matt Zakreski, PsyD shares this hilarious and helpful tip!
How to Climb the Wall of Awful, with Brendan Mahan
Does your child ever come up against the “wall of awful?” The wall of awful is when we have so much to do, and it’s so overwhelming, that hopelessness and “why bother” start to creep in. It’s when we see a pattern of incomplete assignments, under-achievement, school resistance, students checking out and shutting down. The…
Read MoreHelp Your Child Go from Worrier to Warrior, with Dan Peters, PhD
Does it sometimes feel like there’s a worry monster taking root in your child’s brain, fueled by all the uncertainty these days? Listen as Dr. Dan Peters shares an approach to tame the worry monster so your child can ease their mind and go from worrier to warrior! Now we’d love to hear from…
Read MoreHow to Talk to Demand-Avoidant Kids, with Kristy Forbes
Is your child or teen highly sensitive, avoidant, or resistant to the everyday demands of home or school? Often it shows up as tantrums or defiance, but under the surface it may have more to do with a hypersensitive threat detection system in the brain. Listen as autistic mother, educator, and advocate Kristy Forbes describes…
Read MoreMinimizing Meltdowns, with Maria Kennedy
Does your child struggle with disruptive behavior in class? As a teacher of 2e students at Bridges Academy, Maria Kennedy, MEd says the first question to ask is, “Why?” There is always a cause for disruptive behavior. When you learn what that cause is, you and your child can develop a strategy to work through…
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